How Yoga can help YOU manage chronic stress, muscle tension from it + feel grounded & safe

How Yoga can help YOU reconnect with your body and mind, and deal with chronic stress & muscle tension? – What science has to say.

By Emilie, Manager & Yoga teacher at Younity studio – YOU Massage

Passionate about physical exercise since my youth, I noticed how increasingly lighter and brighter I felt after each Yoga class when I started as a student, in a deeper way that any other physical practice has done for me before. Recently the wonderful book “The body keeps the score” by Dr Van Der Kolk fed me with a lot of scientist expertise and documentation about how our emotional trauma is stored into our autonomic nervous system – fight or flight response – and therefore in our body. It provides some interesting pieces of information regarding the benefits of Yoga on such matter:

When people are chronically angry or scared, constant muscle tension ultimately leads to spasms, back pain, migraine headaches, fibromyalgia, and other forms of chronic pain (let’s add IBS, chronic fatigue, etc). They may visit multiple specialists, undergo expensive diagnosis tests, and be prescribed multiple medication, some of which may provide temporary relief but all of which fail to address the underlying issues.


`Scientific methods has confirmed that changing the way one breathes can improve problem with anger, depression, and anxiety and that yoga can positively affect such wide-ranging medical problems as high blood pressure, elevated stress hormone secretion, asthma, and low-back pain.
In their 2014 studies, Yoga turned out to be a terrific way to regain relationship with the interior world with a caring, loving, sensual relationship to the self. If you are not aware of what your body needs, you can’t take care of it. If you can’t feel hunger, you can’t nourish yourself. If you mistake anxiety for hunger, you may eat too much. And if you can’t feel when you are satiated, you’ll keep eating. This is why cultivating sensory awareness is such a critical aspect of trauma recovery. Most traditional therapies downplay or ignore the moment-to-moment shifts in our inner sensory world.


In yoga you focus your attention on your breathing and your sensations on your moment to moment. You begin to notice the connection between your emotions and your body – perhaps how anxiety about doing a pose throw you actually off balance. You begin to experiment with changing the way you feel. Will taking a deep breath relieve that tension in your shoulder? Will focusing on your exhalations produce a sense of calm?

Simply noticing what you feel fosters emotional regulation, and it helps you to stop trying to ignore what is going on inside you. As I often tell my students, the two most important phrases in therapy, as in Yoga, are “Notice that” and “What happens next?” Once you start approaching your body with curiosity rather than with fear, everything shifts.


In Yoga you learn that sensations rise to a peak and then fall. In a challenging position, you may first feel a sense of defeat or resistance, anticipating that you won’t be able to tolerate the feelings brought up by this particular position. A good yoga teacher will encourage you to just notice any tension while timing what you feel with the flow of your breath: “We’ll be holding this position for ten breaths.” This helps you anticipate the end of discomfort and strengthens your capacity to deal with physical and emotional distress. Awareness that all experience is transitory changes your perspective on yourself.”

Yoga is much more than a simple physical exercise, it can help you improve your mind deeply and sustainably, find love and peaceful confidence within yourself. It has been a game changer for myself and so many others. Let it become your game changer. Try out one of our Yoga classes in Southampton in our Younity – look for Yoga at Younity on Google 🙂


Source:
– Dr Van Der Kolk – The body keeps the score, Chapter Learning to inhabit your body: Yoga, P318-329, 2014, Penguin Psychology

NEW Infrared Therapy with Daisy

Introduction to Infrared Massage with Daisy at YOU Massage Southampton

What is infrared therapy?

Infrared therapy is a light-based method primarily used to treat pain and inflammation, but it also has many other used. Unlike ultraviolet light, which can damage the skin, infrared light enhances cell regeneration. Infrared light is delivered to the site of injury or inflammation at certain wavelengths, promoting cell repair.

In this new treatment option, Daisy offers you the opportunity to bathe under the Infrared light as part of your Deep Tissue Massage Treatment, reducing tension and aiding recovery.

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Meet Tom, New Massage, Reiki, Reflexology Therapist

Hi my name is Tom ‘The New Guy’, but you can just call me Tom. I Joined the YOU Massage team at the start of 2023. You’ll see me on the front desk and on the phone when I’m not in treatment so most of you will have the displeasure of my company. All joking aside, I’m here to help both on the admin side and as a therapist.

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I offer Holistic, Swedish and Deep Tissue Massages, as well as Aromatherapy, Reflexology and Reiki (primarily with crystals). My favourites being a toss up between Deep Tissue and Reiki, despite them being at pretty much polar ends of the spectrum.

I Like deep tissue because personally I think there is nothing better than a client coming in with an ache, pain or knot but at the end saying how much better it feels or how much range of motion they have regained.

Honestly, I think this comes from having a mum who suffered chronic back pain due to an old spinal injury, if it wasn’t for the masseuses and chiropractors she saw whilst I was growing up, I know life would have been a lot harder and much more painful for her. So I like being able to help people in the same position because I know first hand how much a difference it makes. It may not always be the most relaxing treatment but the benefits outweigh this drawback.

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An Introduction to Lymph Drainage Massage for Immunity – by Marie

Available for JUST £81 for 90 minutes before 30/11/22

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Let’s Talk About Lymph!

An Introduction to Lymph Drainage Massage

Hello, my name is Marie, an experienced massage therapist at YOU Massage, and I would like to talk about your lymphatic system. A fascinating structure that rarely gets the recognition it deserves!

We stimulate the Lymph System’s efficiency with Lymphatic Drainage Massage, available as 45, 75 and 90 minute treatments, we suggest booking in for longer as the rhythm of the massage is slow and depends on your system and how sluggish it may be feeling; it can be slowed down sue to additional pressure on the immune system; a few massages may be recommended to bring you back to optimum health and immune system efficiency.

What is your lymphatic system?

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Natural Face Lift Uplifting Face & Neck Massage

We’d like to introduce to you, the Holistic Way to combat the signs of ageing and boost, not just radiance, but the health and vitality of your skin, mood, and well-being with this amazing new Facial treatment, combining modern and traditional techniques with deeply relaxing massage, offered , and introduced here, by Dessy…

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Every day our faces produce countless expressions, grimaces and we hold tension in our faces, jaw, neck and shoulders, which affects how we feel and how we look.

Our Natural Face Lift Uplifting Face & Neck Massage is a 6 week holistic treatment program that produces deep change and dissolves years of muscular holding patterns in the face, leaving you feeling and looking brighter on both the inside and out! The treatment naturally stimulates collagen and elastin and will smooth and lift the face to leave a radiant complexion.

The Natural Face Lift Uplifting Face & Neck Massage is a treatment package offered over a course of 6 weeks; your journey to fresh faced bliss starts with an initial consultation session to get to know you and your goals, then you will receive a divine 60min treatment once a week for the following 5 weeks, all included in the £310 package price. 

6 week Transformational Package £310 – call or email us to purchase!

See below the before and after pictures after just one session:

 

 

 

 

 

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Reflexology for Anxiety – to reduce symptoms and Insomnia

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Introducing: ‘Anxiety Reduction Reflexology’

 

Hi! My name is Daisy, I am a very experienced Holistic therapist from Bulgaria in Eastern Europe. I have been working at the YOU Massage & Therapy Centre for several years and I just love to help people feel balanced and well with my various treatments and packages, such as ‘Oriental Massage’ and ‘Bamboo Deep Tissue’.

 

I help people in many ways, but I am particularly gifted in helping to manage both anxiety and insomnia; often people are suffering from both, or one or the other, at some stage, or ongoing, in their lives.

 

I’d like to explain how…

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HEALTH AND FITNESS by Phil, Physiotherapist

The terms health and fitness are often used interchangeably but they’re different, although often related.

The World Health Organization defines health as: “A state of complete physical, mental and social wellbeing”.

Fitness class

There’re various definitions of fitness, but commonly it’s stated as: “The ability to fulfil a particular role or task”.

We can therefore see that fitness is specific, so we may be fit to walk but not to run and that a certain level of health may be required to perform a specific task.  Similarly, the fitness required to be a sprinter, requiring power and speed, is different from that being a distance runner, needing endurance. This makes it difficult to ascertain who is the “fitter” person. Continue reading

How do Mobile Phones cause health problems with our necks and how can we prevent it?

Holistic and Sports Massage therapist, William, talks text neck.

Have you ever found yourself scrolling through your phone aimlessly in an act of procrastination?

If you’re anything like me then I’m sure you have. The average person spends over 24 hours a week on the internet. This amount of time online has doubled in the past 10 years and stats are increasing!

And why wouldn’t they?

The rise of Facebook, Instagram and twitter has had us glued to our phones. Even if you’re not a social media junkie, there are no escaping emails and phone calls. All of this leads us ‘looking down’ as a society where instead we should be looking up.

Mobile phone usage has a massive effect on our health. As a society we are learning more about how technology can affect our mental health, but one thing we forget to factor is how this can affect our physical health, particularly our necks.

The human head weighs around 11 pounds in a neutral position; however when we are looking down our head can weigh up to 60 pounds. That equals roughly 60 pints of water… Or 600 golf balls!

Doesn’t that put things into perspective?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Surgical Lymphatic Draining Massage

Have you noticed your body swelling or bloating?

Have your tummy or legs gotten that swollen look?

Maybe your Lymphatic System is blocked or not working efficiently due to Lymphoedema!

 

Lympho what?  I hear you say… Ok back up a little…. to fully understand lymphoedema, it helps to first know a bit about our bodies lymphatic system.

The lymphatic system is part of our body’s immune system, it helps to protect us from infection and disease. Lymph fluid passes through lymph nodes which are connected by a network of lymph vessels. The lymph nodes are found throughout the whole body. This lymph runs alongside the circulatory system, but unlike blood that is pumped by the heart and under pressure throughout the bodies arteries and veins, the lymph system has no pump, and relies on muscles contracting in order for it to move around the body. The lymphatic system acts like a one-way drainage system transporting fluid from our body’s tissues into the bloodstream.

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Introducing Holistic-Thai-Sports Therapist: Chris

Greetings to all!

Excited to establish myself as the newest therapist operating out of: You Massage Southampton.

Please allow me to share a little of my journey thus far:

Having been told in teens that I had a natural gift, I began my studies and later qualified as a Holistic Therapist in 2004. From a very young age, I had always been drawn to Asian culture, so knew instantly that I was destined to further my knowledge and training with traditional Asian massage techniques.  I roamed South East Asia and eventually settled in Northern Thailand to study Traditional Thai Massage at the prestigious TMC School. I was blessed enough to train in ancient Thai techniques perfected by the late Mama Lek Chaiya and her legendary Nervetouch system. From there I was one of the lucky few that studied Meridians and Acupuncture at Mungkala Chinese Medicine Centre, and became the embodiment of healthy-vegan living, staying in a bamboo hut within a remote Buddhist temple built beside a jungle waterfall and dabbling in Shamanic rituals.

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